I stumbled across this article and it was like a beam of light broke through the clouds and shined down on me. This is the perfect combination of things we’ve talked about in class. I found this article on CNN.com. It’s about this exotic dance club or gentlemen’s club in New York called CafĂ© Royale. Looking at their website, I would say that this place is trying to be an upscale establishment, they have a VIP section and “celebrity” guests and it is in the heart of New York City. So the news article said that this woman, Jennifer Paviglianiti, worked as a bartender at this club and was making a pretty substantial amount of money doing so. Up until she got pregnant. So because of her pregnancy and the theme of her workplace, Paviglianiti began to get nervous that her job would soon be in jeopardy if her boss, John Doxey, found out her pregnancy. Paviglianiti continued to delay telling her boss the news and low and behold, Doxey found out, and this makes Paviglianiti a little more nervous. Paviglianiti tried to protect herself and her job by recording her conversations with Doxey and during one particular conversation, Doxey can be heard saying, “Customers don’t wanna come in and see a pregnant woman behind the bar!” Doxey responded to this by saying that he could lose customers and money by continuing to allow her to work there. According to the article, he can legally say that she has to maintain a “sexy look” and in that case Doxey would have had to acknowledge that before Paviglianiti was hired that she would be working as a model and a bartender. Apparently this is how Las Vegas hires bartenders and workers for their clubs and casinos.
This is an interesting story because Paviglianiti is a woman working in the men’s entertainment business, and she is pregnant. I understand that men go to gentlemen’s clubs for leisure, to escape their lives as workingmen and fathers and to have a good time. They do not want to go into these clubs and be reminded of what they are trying to escape. I am not saying that all men feel this way, just patrons of these establishments. Furthermore, women themselves that are not involved with the pregnancy see it as unattractive as well. Finally, men my age do not want to think about having a kid or pregnancy because we do not want to grow up anytime soon. However, pregnancy is a natural process that is essential to the continuation of our species so how can it be seen as negative? By using perspectives and ideas from Joan Brumberg’s Body Project and Anne Fausto-Sterling’s Hormonal Hurricanes: Menstruation, Menopause, and Female Behavior, I will examine why I believe that the owner, John Doxey, was right in his action.
First off, I would simply just like to discuss pregnancy and how it is viewed in popular culture. For the most part, young adults try to avoid becoming pregnant. The main reason is people my age, people in college and/or with a job, simply do not have the time or resources or maturity to raise a child. Students that attend college are always very busy with schoolwork and young professionals do not always have enough income or job security to reliably take care of a child; not to mention these people most likely aren’t married. However, I do understand that there are young adults out there that can successfully work a full time job and raise a family not long after high school. Continually, on the other hand, it is not fashionable for young women to become pregnant because, working with themes from Brumberg, women are still working on their “body projects.” Being pregnant puts a lot of stress on the mother’s body, they gain weight, and they get dreaded stretch marks. I cannot even begin to count the number of times I have seen a commercial about a cream that eliminates these “obscene” marks. Women cannot wear the “fashionable” clothes that are constantly being pressed upon pop-culture, although recently designers have been making maternity clothes. The point I am trying to put across is that pregnancy has become very unpopular with pop-culture, and therefore a pregnancy is seen as a negative occurrence for young women.
Next, it is generally a bad idea for a woman to work at a bar or a club while she is pregnant. Let me try to paint a picture of a club on a Friday or Saturday night. There are usually going to be a lot of people if the place is popular, and being in New York City, they probably have a large clientele base. The majority of the customers that enter this establishment are probably going to be drinking or drunk and this can create a loud and stressful environment. Intoxicated people are not very patient and can sometimes grow violent which can result in a potentially dangerous environment for the unborn child. Furthermore, regular patrons often become friendly with the workers and will frequently buy drinks for the bartender; the bartender does not have to consume this beverage but the temptation is there. Bartending often means late nights and long hours, and the entire time is spent on your feet and you cannot leave your bar, with the new stresses on the mother’s body, I can understand how this would be a difficult task. Finally, referring to Fausto-Sterling’s work, pregnant women do have a lot of hormones running through their body and combined with the stresses of working at a club that could be the recipe for disaster.
What I am trying to convince you, the reader, is that a pregnant woman working at a bar is not a good idea, and I believe that Doxey was correct in his action to move Paviglianiti to a different position, presumably less demanding. Yes, there is good reason for Paviglianiti to want to retain her original position because she was making more money, but most likely she can resume her position once she has had her child if should would like to have it back.